Resources

LEARN HOW TO GROW FROM GRIEF

There is a growing understanding of the impacts of mother loss. This collection of useful resources can offer support, advice in coping with things, and a lovely way to remember your mum.

FACTSHEETS

Factsheet

WHAT CAN I LEAVE MY Child?

Motherless Daughters Australia feels strongly about ensuring that death doesn’t always have to be so final and confronting for those who are left behind, particularly children.

This fact sheet provides guidance around what to consider when preparing children for life without mum.

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Supporting a Motherless Daughter

Many women and girls whose mothers have died will have family, friends, partners and others who may want to be a source of support.

We understand that this can be a tough time and that it is sometimes difficult to find the right words or know how to help. This fact sheet provides some practical ways you can better support someone you know who has lost their mother.

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Factsheet

Supporting a Motherless Daughter

Many women and girls whose mothers have died will have family, friends, partners and others who may want to be a source of support.

We understand that this can be a tough time and that it is sometimes difficult to find the right words or know how to help. This fact sheet provides some practical ways you can better support someone you know who has lost their mother.

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MEMORIES OF MUM JOURNAL

Art and creative expression can offer great therapeutic value to those who are grieving. It helps both adults and children alike, by providing an outlet and space to explore feelings and communicate in a unique and creative way.

Memories of Mum is a journal aimed at supporting children aged 4+ who have experienced mother loss. It helps to make sense of their grief and loss while creating a personalised memoir.

It can help: 

  • Enable conversations to take place between children, siblings and main caregivers.
  • Children remember and honour their mum in their own unique way. 
  • Provide a space for children to explore different topics and to help process their grief and loss. 
  • Encourage children to have healthy conversations about their mum and ensure they're heard.

Whilst our journals are free, we welcome donations where possible so that we can continue to provide this valuable resource to children whose mothers have died.

To obtain a journal(s) for a young person and/or to make a donation, please email us below and provide us with the following information: 

  • If you are not the primary caregiver, please disclose your relationship to the recipient(s)
  • Age/gender of the recipient(s)
  • Mailing address and contact details
  •  If you’re not a primary care giver - confirmation you have consulted the child/children's primary caregiver before proceeding, to ensure that they're comfortable and happy to receive a journal. 

Once we’ve received your information, we’ll be in touch to confirm we’ve sent the journal to you!

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PODCASTS AND BOOKS

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What will I wear to your funeral?

Kellie Curtain 

'What will I wear to your funeral?' 'How do I look after your orchid?'

Kellie wanted to ask her mother so many questions while she still could. When you don't go a day without speaking to someone you love, how do you say goodbye forever? It didn't bear thinking about. 

When Pamela Curtain is diagnosed with cancer, her family plead with her to try everything that might give them more time. She reluctantly agrees, but on one condition. Life goes on because it has to and so does the weekly family dinner with wine and loud sibling banter. 

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It's OK That You're Not Ok

Megan Devine

With It's OK That You're Not OK, Megan reveals a path for navigating grief and loss, not by trying to escape it, but by learning to live inside of it with more grace and strength.

Through stories, research, life tips, and mindfulness-based practices, she offers a unique guide through an experience we all must face. Here she debunks the culturally prescribed goal of returning to a normal, 'happy' life, replacing it with the skills and tools to help us experience and witness the pain of loss in ourselves and others.

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Without My Mum

Leigh Van Der Horst

Perhaps the only thing that can impact and shape a woman's life with the same power as her mother's love and guidance is her mother's death.

In 'Without My Mum', Leigh Van Der Horst shares her own honest, heartfelt story of losing her beloved mother to cancer. She invites us on a journey that is at times heartbreaking and others heartwarming, yet is ultimately comforting and inspiring. With genuine warmth and candor, Leigh tells of her transformative passage through devastating grief to rediscover and redefine her own identity.

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Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

Hope Edelman

Ask any woman whose mother has died, and she will tell you that she is irrevocably altered, as deeply changed by her mother's death as she was by her mother's life.

Building on interviews with hundreds of mother-loss survivors, the author's personal story of losing her mother, recent research in grief and psychology, and with a new afterword exploring how the legacy of mother loss shifts with the passage of time, Motherless Daughters reveals the shared experiences and core identity issues of motherless women.

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It's OK That You're Not Ok

Megan Devine

With It's OK That You're Not OK, Megan reveals a path for navigating grief and loss, not by trying to escape it, but by learning to live inside of it with more grace and strength.

Through stories, research, life tips, and mindfulness-based practices, she offers a unique guide through an experience we all must face. Here she debunks the culturally prescribed goal of returning to a normal, 'happy' life, replacing it with the skills and tools to help us experience and witness the pain of loss in ourselves and others.

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Book

Without My Mum

Leigh Van Der Horst

Perhaps the only thing that can impact and shape a woman's life with the same power as her mother's love and guidance is her mother's death.

In 'Without My Mum', Leigh Van Der Horst shares her own honest, heartfelt story of losing her beloved mother to cancer. She invites us on a journey that is at times heartbreaking and others heartwarming, yet is ultimately comforting and inspiring. With genuine warmth and candor, Leigh tells of her transformative passage through devastating grief to rediscover and redefine her own identity.

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Private Facebook Support Group

The Motherless Daughters private support group on Facebook is a safe space for over thousands of daughters to engage in open conversation and support each other as they cope with grief and lifes ongoing journey without mum.

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TO HELP WOMEN NAVIGATE LIFE’S JOURNEY WITHOUT MUM.

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